Getting a break?

I know all moms need a break but I have to ask: how much of a break is it when the person relieving you won't stick to your schedule, second guesses you & ignores your wishes? Then, all you have left to deal with when your "break" is over is HELL trying to get back onto routine, get BOTH babies on the SAME routine, get naps and feedings back on track, listen to screaming and whining for the rest of the day?! Is it just me or would anyone else rather pass on the break because of the inevitable HELL that is sure to follow?

Sorry...I need a BREAK and there is no one that can give me a real break besides Jason and he is working so...I'd rather just push thru and get on with the evening.